Xunqing Lijiang Naxi marital relationship is highlighted in the phenomenon, it has become rooted in the Naxi society in a strange culture. Naxi Xunqing there is a historical change in the process. Naxi Xunqing cultural connotation is very rich and complex social problems, and it changes with the formation of the Naxi society in the specific historical conditions of the political, economic and cultural situation of a direct link is subject to its political, economic and cultural Composite affect the outcome. Xunqing Naxi is for young men and women against the feudal arranged marriages, the pursuit of the nation since ancient times free love, free association and to the ideal of the traditional form of love is an extreme v. beam mode. Through this thesis research, digging out today from the rich connotations of the Naxi culture, a better understanding of the essence of traditional culture And continually inheritance and innovation,and for the building of a harmonious social services Lijiang.